Was she trying to control me?

i am not sure that she was trying to control you but she was deffinently trying to make sure that you didnt overcome her. meaning that you didnt become more popular than she was or anything like that. if she has moved though i wouldnt worry about it there is not much she can do at this point and the stuff she can you could easily stop... people are always going to have mean things to say about other people so dont take the comment to heart...